Getting married?
Contact Father Justin Hoye (call the parish office below or click to email) when you are engaged. (We prefer at least nine month’s notice.)
Once couples have started the marriage process, Fr. Justin helps guide them through.
Materials/Information for couples
- The Marriage Preparation Process at STM
- Counselor Kathy Oades-Kelly’s website
- Costs associated with marrying at St. Thomas More
Want to support those getting married?
Marriage Preparation is a joint effort of pastoral staff and trained lead couples to support and assist engaged couples in their preparation for married life. Lead Couple contacts: Peter & Maureen McInerney.
Looking for support/resources?
Natural Family Planning (NFP)
Click here for the NFP page of this site.
For troubled marriages
The Retrouvaille program offers support for troubled marriages. See their website here.
Suggested reading
- The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman
On the web
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